Thanks for the talk! This is obviously an emotionally charged journey to discuss, even after finally getting it handled. I have a few friends who’ve told me similar stories; the lucky ones who finally found a provider with the basic decency of respecting their bodily autonomy. I know several others who’ve yet to break through.

You’re contributing a great deal of value by sharing this story and building awareness.”
–Tamas (via facebook)

Hi Christen! Last night I watched your Ted Talk and it really inspired me. I have always known that I do not want to give birth to a child. When I tell my mom this, tears build in her eyes and she says that since I am young I am just saying that. God gave you a gift to have children and you will have them. It’s always been a struggle for me when she says that. I feel like I am not the daughter she hoped for. I tell her that I am going to foster and adopt kids and give a child a loving home to live in. I really do not see what is wrong with that. Anyway, I just wanted to say thank you for giving me the message my mother should have.”

—via Facebook message